Sexual behavior is natural instinct to seek gratification, gifted to us by nature. For the life form it is the pleasure of release but for nature it is the purpose. Purpose of nature influences life form to react to the attraction. Reaction to attraction to act for the purpose of carnal appetite; we can call as sexual behavior.

Sexual behavior is under control of the negative and positive feature of our genetic material. Reaction of gene is by dominance of either. Whichever is dominant will react and incite us to act for its objective. In the same time gene also modifies self by interacting with the environment in order to maintain or survive. The negative and positive environment too play role to shape the gene. Dominant environment drags towards its characteristics to shape the gene character alike. Again the force of gene character if is stronger than existing environment, will dominate and act on its terms to assist to strengthen opposite environment. Sexual violence is the result of the dominance of negative behavior and the environment. Such characters are psychologically treated by influencing the opposite dominant environment to what one was undergoing before. 

We observe people with two different characters both are opposite to each other. Negative acts negatively and positive acts positively. Negative thinking about sex is only extreme lust or hunger. Desire is only to fulfill extreme hunger, in such case the act is in desperation and painful to the partner. This pleasure of relief one gets similar to what felt during release of urine after extreme pressure and nothing more. On the other hand positive thinker understands the purpose and ways to extract full gratification from this act. Both characters have different ways of activities. One thing we may not forget that males desire to act for release is more frequent than female as male is extroverted that ejects; regular formation of semen activates our sense to go for release.  And female is introverted as the process of suction of ejected substance, her peak sense of desire is following menstrual when she is prepared to indulge. During this period attraction is towards committed and manly  looking persons and during normal period would wish sweet looking person (if given freedom).  

Female desire is less frequent than males; female enjoys the act even during other periods but in reasonable time gap. In many cases male has to stimulate female to participate in action. Oral act is desirably adopted by major percentage of families to extinguish craving with several methods and some are very cruel which women generally does not wish to bear becomes painful. Women attention diverts when she is mother, gives more time and attention to children than to husband becomes issue in many families. Infuriates the relation and blames on each other for non sharing responsibilities and lack of attention and etc; (other reasons too). Leads to beginning of deteriorated relations; in bed also. Finally creates wrong environment in the home to change behavior of both the persons, negative dominates the house to spread its objectives of clash, violence in kitchen and bed too. 

External or internal attraction of individual’s quality, influences to surrender to enchant within, expresses through external parts, and is indication of invitation or desire to opposite. Woman or man both get attracted to attractions but reaction is in accordance to introverted and extroverted qualities. Introverted people react but are unable to express perfectly, on the other hand extroverted expresses the desire gives clear indication to opposite. Introverted people keep the feelings within and dream/ sense the emotions and sexual aspect, finally, ends up in masturbation; therefore, masturbation is more common to introverted people than to extroverted. Most introverted people are failures to express  what they feel or be in love with, thus feel unlucky or cheated. Introverted people analyze/ calculate before explaining / expressing, take long-long time to say one sentence of desire or feelings that too in lot of hesitations. Only people with patience can wait to hear. On the other hand in practice they may surpass extroverted, as they have felt/ dreamt the actions, they speak less and act more, so can give strong sensation. Introverted people are not for every body, rather are for strong hearts. They are questions you have to answer and if answered you are the luckiest for sexual and married life because they do not easily cheat unless find strong reasons.

Lack of informative sexual education and desecrated views about sex has contributed a lot to treat sex act as mischief. Women are portrayed as symbol of sex entertainment.  They have become source of entertainment, are used as a doll to play is one of the reasons of sexual violence. Male’s lack of understanding about female creates wrong environment that changes behavior, see as object to play and molest them. In an open society where men and women are equal, such incidences are rarely seen as they know about each other’s purpose of existence. Open society with open mind and education about sex and opposite partner, liberates our feelings that guides to respect each other. Respect creates good environment that guides to reduce sexual violence. In many countries sex is treated as bad subject so are not introduced, creates only confusion among girls and boys without knowing each other.

Women expects more romantic act before sexual act.