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“But I say unto you, that whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for
the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery”
(Matthew 5:32). “But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery
with her already in his heart” (Matthew 5:28).
Woman is limited to quality as compared to man’s instinct for quantity
As far as sex is concerned each of us is cheat, get attracted easily to good looks and gorgeous. Thus the desire
enchants within to feel externally or internally whatever!!!!!!! Social binding is the tool that restricts us rather controls
the freedom in order to differentiate us from animals.
All species are developed in such a pattern that male’s desire is
to promote (as much as possible) own gene or in other sense personality/ self character/ individuality/ entity. Thus the tendency
is; transfer own gene to more and more females to fertile. This tendency of man incites to have sexual contact with many women.
If society had not interfered things would have been very different. Men
would find time only for competing to have more and more companions. Social and religious restrictions control freedom of
men from having as many companions as he wants. In each religion and its inscriptions certain rules have been drawn for men
to follow. (Matthew 5-27)"You have heard that the
law of Moses says, `Do not commit adultery. 28But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with
lust in his eye has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29So if your eye--even if
it is your good eye causes you to lust, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body
than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. 30And if your hand--even if it is your stronger
hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole
body to be thrown into hell.
On the other hand women’s desire is to have healthy and perfect child
so wishes to conceive perfect gene. This quality in female persuades her to search and test the variety, during the peak
period, her instinct would pay attention to the attracting quality of males and if relates to her taste, indication of green
signal begins for association. Married or not; there is no adult woman, who has never desired for association with more than
one man in her life time. Social restriction prevents her rather for women there are heavy restriction by society and its
religion. Her freedom is totally curtailed.
(Old Testament) viewed women:
Unmarried women were not allowed to leave the home of their father.
Married women were not allowed to leave the home of their husband.
They were normally restricted to roles of little or no authority.
They were not allowed to talk to strangers.
They had to be doubly veiled when they left their homes.
click and view status in more religions. Women and religion
At least no body can prevent her from dreaming about another person. Woman
instinct is limited to quality so would not wish to go for as many numbers as men do, in the same time they love men flirting
around and compete to seek her. Finally winner / suitable man is invited to have contact for having child.
Evolutionally process developed human to live in groups for safety and better
communication. Society was formed when human learned to live in groups for better and secured life led to differentiate human
from other species. Before the society’s existence men and women behaved like chimpanzees and gorillas, only dominant
male could have control and sexual contact. Selection of companion was based on winner in the conflict for domination. Religion of the society came forward to arrange
human sexual life that prevented human to behave like animals. Pre marriage sexual acts were forbidden choice of one companion
for life time made essential, to bring discipline among human being.
Sexual craving in human is more frequent due to regular formation of semen
in men and 28 days menstrual cycle in women. Human’s want of sexual gratification is like food and is frequent as compared
to other near species. Religious and social restrictions led to suicidal control
on sexual desire, is one of the factors to evolve homosexual behavior among men and women. Homosexuality evolves as a result
of necessity of sexual fulfillment in absence of opposite sex and environmental effect. Homosexuality develops during childhood
by experiencing physically or mentally. The desire and the environment together modify genetically to develop taste of same
sex becomes addiction, is I say “homosexuality”. Almost all the societies and religions considered this as sin in order to discourage unnatural purposeless human sexual
behavior. Leviticus 20:13 If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed
an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.
Masturbation is pleasure of relief from sexual craving, is normal behavior
of human being. Desire of pleasure during release incites to act self. This relief does not give real satisfaction as during
establishing action with opposite sex. The position during act with opposite sex added by warmth and pliability, heats up
body by increasing blood pressure/ heartbeat, builds up mind to concentrate for strong discharge and stronger discharge is
for better pleasure. Better pleasure is better tonic for health. Release or relief of sexual craving is managed by brain cells.
Desire of sex, activates these cells to react and sends chemical instructions to body and sexual organs to shape in accordance
of the need. So Masturbation does not affect the sexual organs nor does any one become impotent. In fact sex is enjoyed by
the brain and cells and sexual organs are only its tools. But when get addicted kills the desire and pleasure of sex, relates to both masturbation and intercourse.
May encounter problems of reduction of taste towards opposite sex; weak concentration due to too routine practice, dejects
stimulation thus delays, etc; in ancient times of high infant mortality
and low life expectancy, masturbation was discouraged in the belief that it endangered the survival of the species. Societies
systemized to discourage by saying masturbation is sin, so could help to growing population; early marriages too were the
reason for people abstaining from this action as was no need. Leviticus
15:16-17 When a man has an emission of semen, he must bathe his whole body with water, and he will be unclean till evening.
Any clothing or leather that has semen on it must be washed with water, and it will be unclean till evening.
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