INFIDELITY and society:

Web	www.sadashivan.com

INFIDELITY and society: In order to avoid human behaving as other living creatures societies formed norms. Society considers extra marital affairs as sin and gives the name as “INFIDELITY” OR “CHEATING SPOUSE” in order to keep both in discipline to keep society’s marriage system intact. A man or woman involves in extra marital sexual or emotional activity that leads to second relation is defined Infidelity. This definition is effective as long as the cheater is not caught and in free societies infidelity does not mean any thing. Impact of society and its religious norms are so influential that alters our behaviour to accept and to live with it. Individual represses own desires to follow norms to live with it. This behaviour differentiates from other living species. Societies want us to live in discipline. Societies do not like Marriage values to diminish so extra marital relation is illegitimated.

Bible verses on the subject of Adultery: (biblebb.com click the link) EXO 20:14 “You shall not commit adultery. 19:20 "'If a man sleeps with a woman who is a slave girl promised to another man but who has not been ransomed or given her freedom, there must be due punishment. Yet they are not to be put to death, because she had not been freed.

In Koran adultery has two separate punishments. (submission.org click the link) In Surah 4:15 it says women should be confined to their house until death. In Surah 4:16 it says men should be left alone if they repent and amend. But at Surah 24:2 we read that Allah wants both the man and the woman involved. In adultery to receive 100 lashes.

Old Testament/ New Testament: (thewordsofeternallife.com click the link) sexual intercourse with a person of the opposite sex other than the marriage partner.

HINDUISM and adultery Extramarital relationships: (hinduwebsite.com click the link) with the emergence of adharma, O Krishna, women become impure. And when women fall into bad ways, O descendent of Vrisni, admixture of castes takes place.

Number of infidelity is on the rise as the olden society and religious influence is dropping. Modern societies of developed countries have created new society with free approach. This freedom relaxes human behaviour to go on to follow the extra marital desires. Where the religion’s hold is still strong especially in developing and rural world infidelity is still uncommon and is treated in different way. In developed and modern countries women and men are seen same way as women rights is equally strong and are educated enough to know rights. Role of woman is almost same as men both meet each other; share each others jobs, share words and etc. Thus modern societies and their people are towards open thinking. As long as woman and man contact or work in same place attention, invitations and attraction will continue thus infidelity too will continue. Modern people have modern thinking so even marriage system too may once be unpleasant to young generation. This situation has already begun in many developed societies of European developed countries as many divorces, establishing relation without marriage, frequent change of partners, free movement with opposite sex and etc. Does this not indicate marriage system is fading? People do not prefer to live with a person who is not like minded so prefer to find new companion of understanding with whom can share and live. Human behaviour is to go for or do what fulfils to satisfy the desire. Major percentage of women still hesitate to accept their involvement in extra marital life and maintain secretly in fear, is because they are frightened to face the society. Modern and free societies give more freedom means more rights. So, the role of a society is integral to influence the human behaviour to live in the society following its direction.

1. Modern and liberalised society’s religious attitude facilitated women to come out of homes to join work force made her more open minded.

2. Without woman man can not cheat so woman is equally responsible. Her right to live persuades her to choose her life style.

3. Development of the country is growth of individuals and their thinking. This revolutionises the individual’s behaviour also affects the extra marital affairs.

4. Media and the ads have overtaken old religious approach. Now they decide how people to behave are among the reasons of sexual attraction in working places or elsewhere.

5. Extra marital affair is illegitimate as long as marriage system exists. Modern people no more believe in marriages they rather like to live with chosen by them. Continues as long as the relation is intact.

6. Individuals are not capable to control or resist tasting verities of sexual sweets. Only society’s fear can change them to be in limitation.

Above information is only my assumption and views may not be accurate or treated as solution, so please consult authorized persons only. Eligible students too are requested to seek guidance of teachers before referring above information.

shopping for stress release - shopping for stress release

How to Use Your Mind for Study Learn the simple techniques straight A students are using everyday to get an unfair advantage over you in the class room! You will be shocked to learn just how simple these techniques really are to use! Depression - Dealing With Emotional Distress * Depression Â– Â“Dealing with emotional distressÂ Depression is a psychiatric disorder characterized by an inability to concentrate, insomnia, loss of appetite, feelings of extreme sadness, guilt, helplessness and hopelessness, and thoughts of death. Depression symptoms are characterized not only by negative thoughts, moods, and behaviors, but also by specific changes in bodily functions (e.g.,eating, sleeping, and sexual activity). The functional changes are often called neuro-vegetative signs. Hypno-DoctorÂ™ helps to ease the burden of depression by addressing the following categories: o Happiness o Health o Helpfulness o Love o Nurturing o Relax o Sensitive Anxiety Control - Release to Peace * Anxiety Control Â– Â“Release-to-peaceÂ“ People with high levels of anxiety are prone to higher frequency, intensity, and duration of the worry that are disproportionate to the actual source of worry, and such worry often interferes with daily functioning. Physical symptoms of anxiety can include: cold, clammy hands; hypertension; difficulty swallowing; gastrointestinal discomfort and diarrhea; jumpiness; muscle tension; nausea; and sweating. Anxiety sufferers also easily become tired and have trouble sleeping. They also tend to be irritable and complain about feeling "on edge". Hypno-DoctorÂ™ helps to alleviate such anxiety by focusing on the following categories: o Assertive o Change o Confidence o Criticism o Health o Obsessing o Relax o Sensitive Sleep Management - Peace & Tranquility * Sleep Management Â– Â“Peace and tranquility throughout the nightÂ” Sleep disorder is a physical and psychological condition or disturbance of sleep and wakefulness caused by abnormalities that occur during sleep or by abnormalities of specific sleep mechanisms. Sleep disorder can range from Sleep Apnea, Insomnia, Narcolepsy, Restless Legs Syndrome, Hypersomnia, Parasomnias to Circadian Rhythm Disorders. Hypno-DoctorÂ™ can bring about change within your sleep management cycle by addressing the following categories: o Change o Dreams o Happiness o Health o Obsessing o Relax o Rest o Sleep How to reduce stress at work and at home! How to Stop Your Depression Now Finally, retired clinical counselor reveals the secrets successful psychiatrists and psychologists don't want you to know. Discover how to stop your depression now! World Of Alternatives. Psychic,astral,clairvoyant,chakra,manifestation,memory,IQ,telepathy,stress,sleep,meditation,chi,tinnitus,past Life,jet Lag,hgh,pain,learning,hypnosis,subliminal,depression,endorphin,om Downloads Astral travel , Remote Viewing, Lucid Dreaming, Telepathy, Clairvoyance, Chakra Tuning, Stress Management, Meditation Full Self Hypnosis Range by direct download Full Sound therapy range by direct download Download , plug in and listen 60 day Guarantee Stress Free Public Speaking. The 'Stress Free Guide to Public Speaking and Presentations' is guaranteed to help you present a powerful, motivating talk for every audience, with thunderous applause and a sea of smiling faces every time or your money back! I Q Mind Brain Memory Stress Self Help Library Drastically Improve Your IQ, Memory, Focus, Concentration, Creativity, Public Speaking, Reading Speed, Time Management and Even Stress Management! Instant Audio Relaxation. Scientists have discovered a revolutionary technology that allows you to synchronize your brainwaves to achieve a desired state - or feeling. Put on a pair of headphones, listen and enjoy the effect in minutes. That's it - it couldn't be EASIER! • Relax • Recharge • Spark Creativity • Feel Euphoric • • Achieve Deep Meditative States • Imagine the possibilities Turn Stress Into Energy And Enthusiasm. Learn exactly how to relieve stress at work, increase your personal productivity and thrive under pressure - using a proven system of stress management techniques utilised by thousands of people around the world today

You want choices to select flights and hotels from hundreds of travel, tour, travel agents:

Please click texts below:

FLIGHTS HOTELS RAIL AND TRANSPORT

Please click on the links below to read my articles on more social issues

FIND BOOKS:-

child labour books, Text Books for schools and colleges, Good books on poverty, SOME GOOD BOOKS ON WOMEN RIGHTS, social study books, Good books on creation, evolution, behaviour, religion and spritual, Books on Hijra (Eunuchs), good books on tribes, good books on unorganized sectors, handloom & cottage industries Books, Some good books for Area rugs/ carpets, Books for Marriage - relationship and issues, Sex Education - guidance books

SOCIAL ISSUE LINKS:-

POVERTY A SUBJECT This growth of poverty level is largely due to misunderstanding poverty. Measures controlling poverty should be linked to the suitability of the country, as reasons of poverty changes due to social conditions of the country.

CHILD LOBOUR AND SOCIETY A concern of child labour exists from poverty. We have to understand as why children go to work. If parents don't send their children to work I am sure factories will not be able to consume them. Why poor parents feel children as their assets who will earn money for their home?

UNORGNAISED SECTOR & SOCIAL SECURITY There are thousands of organizations, who can really come ahead with this mission to approach appropriate countries making them understand the necessity and influence them to provide social security to workers who are in UNORGANISED SECTORS

POVERTY AND TRIBES Tribes are socially rich economically poor. Most tribes live in below poverty line. Read their culture as why they need forests. Do not forget to click pictures in this site to view traditional tribal dance.

UNWANTED HUMANS This throbbing short story of a EUNUCH was once submitted to U.N.O on June 12^th of 1989 for appropriate action. Thanks to U.N.O for its understanding in reply dated October 24^th of 1989 for its support and its action to protect this unwanted human. With the effort of Government and U.N.O

"Women" and RIGHTS Many generations woman is treated as property. Women were never treated as self-individual in any civilization. Their independence was discouraged in almost all the civilizations and religions. Without women there would have no civilization, no religion, no societies and no men. Woman is earth, gives birth and nourish till the boy becomes man.

HANDLOOM AND COTTAGE INDUSTRIES Serious problem to the uneducated and semi educated workers of undeveloped and underdeveloped countries, whose main exports are agricultural/ textiles and carpets and products of cottage industries

SCALE OF UNEMPLOYMENT AND MOUNTAIN VILLAGE Munsyari mountain village in India has about 21 villages each has population of about 80 families totaling around 300 people in each with high rate of unemployment !!!!

Handmades and generation of employment when you buy any article give a thought to handmade also

negative/ positive factors and WE Negative environment can be minimized and changed to more positive environment but that depends !!!!! More the number of positive thinkers grater the strength of positive environment. So, number of positive THINKERS has to be more than the number of negative THINKERS for dominating environment.

CARNAL ATTRACTION:Carnal Attraction is sense of temptation, becomes one of essential activities of life when reaching suitable period. (Only for adults)

-: For More social study references CLICK the links below. All are free with pictures. Best wishes :-

WHAT IS BEHAVIOR WHAT IS ENVIORNMENT WHAT IS CULTURE WHAT IS RELIGION WHAT IS CIVILIZATION WHAT IS ART WHAT IS LOVE THE COMMONLANGUAGES WHAT IS EDUCATION United Nations and world, CHILD LABOUR PHOTOS RURAL POVERTY PHOTOS URBAN POVERTY PHOTOS

WOMEN RIGHTS PHOTOS ECONOMICS & MANAGEMENT WHAT IS EVOLUTION